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1 år 5 måneder siden #30 af brpe
det er nu 9 måneder siden jeg gik fra min ex-forlovede som var mega voldsom ja man prøver at leve videre efter man var gået fra ham. men dog har jeg svært med at finde livsglæder og vil hele tiden "lukke" mig i mørke stille tider helst efter børnene er gået iseng. jeg har svært med at knytte mig til mennesker og mænd der søger efter kærlighed med mig men jeg er så mange for at elske nogen igen vil ikke føle den skuffelse og psykisk og fysisk vold er det normalt for nogen der har været udsat for vold at man oplever at man er bange for at elske igen og nærme sig en ny mand? jeg kan næsten ikke få luft bare ved at en der er virkeligt glad for at vise mig kærlighed interesse og nærhed bare ved tanken om det giver mig en følelse af at man ikke kan få luft at man er nød til at komme ud af det, har ingen tillid til mænd som er ud efter kærlighed,søger lige råd herinde.

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1 år 5 måneder siden #31 af Shanti
Besvaret af Shanti på emne levet efter vold i forholdet
Hej Britta
Det er en naturlig reaktion på de voldsomme ting du har været igennem. Brændt barn skyer ilden. Du kan ikke lukke nogen ind før du er klar til det. Og jeg tænker at du ikke skal forcere noget. Min erfaring er at du skal tale med nogen om det og blive stærk i dig selv igen inden der kommer en ny mand ind i billedet. Find en terapeut...en god en eller en psykolog. Og hvis økonomien ikke er til det..så deltag i de fora der findes på fb og få støtte fra de mange ...hovedsageligt kvinder...men også mænd der har været i kløerne på en psykopatisk eller narcissistisk partner. Der kan komme efterreaktioner længe. Både fysiske og psykiske. Få hjælp i denne svære fase. Evt hendvend dig til din læge og se om de rer hjælp at hente der. Målet er ikke at der skal blive plads til en mand. Målet er at der skal blive plads til dig igen. Find ud af dine følelser i det her. Har du skyldfølelser over at være blevet ? Over for dig selv ? Dine børn ? Hvordan kunne han holde dig fast ? Med trusler om alverdens ting ? Tæv, tage børnene fra dig, smadre dit liv og din økonomi ? Hvad har holdt dig fast ? Læs om psykopater og narcissister og bliv klogere på at det ikke er dig der er noget galt med. Men det er ham der har en sygelig adfærd. Og det kan knække enhver. Gå i dialoger omkring emnet her eller andre steder. Man har været isoleret alt for længe i sådan et forhold. Jeg havde lyst til at fortælle det til alle alle alle hvordan det havde været. For det havde været et tabu for mig selv og jeg vidste ikke det var psykisk vold jeg var udsat for. Når det går op for en....så falder brikkerne på plads en for en. Men der er lidt vej hjem endnu med at bearbejde det hele. Alt godt til dig. Mh Shanti

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